"Tsk"
10 / 04 / 03
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I wasn't in a mood to post, but sometimes, you just have to.
First, a warning. Be careful about telling someone anything that may very well upset them. If it's not important and doesn't need to be said, my advice, don't. Especially when it comes to people's attitudes on the net, which is almost always unimportant.
When I say unimportant, I'm not talking about net friends, but people who have nothing better to do than bitch or cop attitudes for imagined wrong doings that in no way will have any real significant impact on one's RL.
Second, (and the cause of the previous warning), it seems someone is still upset because I removed them from an ML I run. Normally, this wouldn't bother me. But, 1: it was brought to my attention, when I really didn't need to know. 2: Said individual is having a grand time twisting it to sound like s/he's an innocent and I only did it because s/he spoke his/her mind. Um, no. There are rules, and when they're broken, it's bye-bye. Also, if I feel one person is going to disrupt a normally calm setting, yes, that's another reason. I don't just get rid of people because they disagree with the rest of the ML unless the person takes these disagreements and turns them into near flames or tries to incite a war.
What's most amusing about this, however, is the incident occurred sometime in the first half of this year. The ML is running smoothly, and nobody there is thinking about it. Honestly, I had put it out of my mind. (Why dwell on unpleasant scenes?) This person is still talking about it, though. And I thought I had a hard time letting things go.
Now if you'll note carefully, I haven't mentioned name one. Not the person, nor the ML. So if anyone has something to say about it, you'll have to make sure I'm speaking about the same thing, which you can't. Oh sure, the evil part of me would love to just spill the beans, but really, what's the point? This is just me speaking on my journal, and considering I run a few MLs, I could be talking about any one of them, and of anybody.
Well, if s/he gets the sympathies of a whole ML, so be it. I have too many projects (that I'm falling behind on) to continue to worry about it any longer.
Sorry, spammers forced my hand. Comments reviewed before being published.
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